There are many realms involved in fetish and BDSM play. Many discerning man and women alike will pursue the adult service of an escort mistress or maledom provider. When sexual desires take a hold, giving in to fetish temptations is just too hard to resist.
Many BDSM / fetish escorts act as a sex educator to any married man and women who just cant approach their BDSM desires with an open mind in their relationship. Within a booking, sexual excitement comes with a sensory overload as individuals explore their kinks and fetishes in a non judgemental environment.
Does your sexual fantasy involve submitting to an escort mistress? She may lay you beneath her table allowing you to worship her feet, the perfect scenario for any foot fetish kinkster.
Although you may be the head of a household at home, you can feel free to let go of all control when visiting your favourite mistress fetish provider on Dakota Dice.
Ask any of the gorgeous BDSM fetish providers about their range of sex toys that they may provide. Strap on play is a very common request for fetish escorts and most will keep one of these in their sexy toy collection at all times.
Please ensure you arrive at any BDSM escort booking with your highest level of personal hygiene carried out prior to arrival.
Below are a few terms used within in BDSM space for you to reference:
Aftercare Aftercare is the emotional and physical care that’s administered after a BDSM 'scene', usually by a top/ escort mistress. Proper aftercare may be used to prevent a sub - drop.
Age Play When one person takes on an older aged role and one person takes on a younger aged role, such as a mother-son scenario.
BDSM An umbrella term used to describe sexual activities that involves the use of physical control, psychological power, or pain. It typically includes the components of bondage and discipline, domination and submission, or sadism or masochism.
Bondage and Discipline A type of BDSM practice that incorporates bondage (tying up, binding, or restraining a person) and discipline (punishing a submissive partner when they break any set of rules).
Bottom The person in a scene who follows the orders and receives the sensations.
Breath Play A form of play when one participant controls their breath. This may include choking or holding the breath of a submissive person.
Consent Mutually agreeing to certain acts in a BDSM scene or relationship. active participants believe that consent is what separates BDSM from assault.
Contract A mutually agreed arrangement that outlines the rules and structures of a BDSM relationship. It may be written or oral.
Dom A dominant who is male.
Domina/Domme A dominant who is female and embraces a feminine gender role.
Dominance and Submission (D/S) A term for the behaviours or rituals that a submissive person follows in a BDSM relationship. In D/S, one person usually has power over another.
Dominant A person who has the authority in a BDSM relationship or scene.
Dungeon Monitor A person (or group of people) who supervises BDSM activities at a club or play party to make sure the acts are safe and consensual.
Edge Play BDSM acts that are considered more intense or dangerous, such as breath play.
Female Dominance When a woman takes the dominant role in a BDSM relationship or scene.
Female Submission BDSM activity in which a woman submits to a sexual partner.
Master The person who has control over a slave in a consensual master-slave relationship.
Male Dominance BDSM acts when the dominant partner is a man, also called maledom.
Male Submission BDSM activities when the submissive participant is a man, also referred to as malesub.
Masochist An individual who likes or becomes sexually gratified by their own pain or humiliation.
Pro Domme A woman who is a professional top and dominant. A mistress escort falls into this category.
Protocol A rule or rules that people practicing BDSM agree to follow.
Role Play When one or more people take on a different identity during a scene. Examples may include teacher-student, doctor-patient, or boss-employee role plays. Most BDSM providers will encourage role play.
Sadism and Masochism This subset of BDSM involves inflicting pain or humiliation for the purpose of pleasure or sexual gratification within a BDSM escort scene.
Sadist A person who enjoys or becomes sexually aroused by inflicting pain or humiliation on someone else.
Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) This phrase describes what the BDSM community considers ethical behavior. Kink enthusiasts stress that activities must always be safe, sane, and consensual.
Safe Word An agreed upon word or phrase that a bottom, sub, or slave can say during a scene to stop the activity or session immediately. Safe words are usually completely irrelevant to anything sexual. Some common safe words are “red” “red light” “pineapple” and “banana.”
Soft Limits A limit that’s more flexible than a hard limit. It might be an act that a person is hesitant to perform but may be willing to try in the right fetish escort setting.
Scene The actual BDSM activities or encounters that take place are known as a scene.
Slave A person who gives up total control of one or more parts of their life to a mistress escort.
Submissive Someone who submits to a dominant person in a BDSM relationship or scene. Submissive can be shortened to sub.
Switch A person who sometimes plays a top and sometimes plays a bottom in a BDSM scene. Many BDSM fetish providers may enjoy acting as the top and the bottom.
Top The person who performs the BDSM acts in a scene and gives stimulation rather than receiving it.
Topping From the Bottom When a bottom tries to control a scene even though it was agreed that the top would be in charge. this usually is followed by some sort of punishment from the BDSM escort.
