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Hi sexual deviants of south australia,
If you care to read it. Here is a little more information about myself as I wanted to keep my profile as simple as possible.
My sexuality..
Sexually, I am a sub and I enjoy giving pleasure.. and watching. I tend to reject bookings where I am needed to be dominant as it feels really awkward and I don't want to under deliver. I enjoy being told what to do (in bed at least, otherwise my rebelious side would massively act out).. rough play, praise kink, being thrown around, choked, spanked, a bit of hair pulling. And being led around the bedroom. I feel lame saying it but i really enjoy missionary. I also get off the most with partners who are reactive in bed. Odly enough, when i masturbate I always return to the memories of the people who were the most reactive and never simply the most attractive.
Somehow if I do watch porn, which is rare, its solely just men masturbating. Which somehow feels even lamer.
I get off when I give you pleasure and really enjoy performing oral and teasing you. Looking up and making just the right amount of eye contact.
My desires around connection..
My desires away from the sexuality of the booking would be one filled with playful energy, slow kissing, and heaps of affection and snuggles.
Also, whilst I look like a girly girl. I am a tom boy. My favourite drink is probably beer. A good IPA or red ale. I also love a schitty.
A couple years ago I used to work in garden maintenance. Enjoying a cold beer and standing back admiring the lawn like a dad is one of my favourite things. Annd my taste in music is like old white dad, country, and divorsed dad rock. I also really enjoy staying active and enjoy physical labour roles. And used to wrestle in school.
I put more effort than most sws into being well groomed and presentable while I am working to give a good experience to my clients.
However, I am a down to earth person and do not priotritise physical looks on myself or other people and admire other characteristics more.
Also, anyone who touches my feet... I will gladly marry or play into any kind of foot fetish if my feet are being touches.. discounts. ;)
My values..
My values are completely centred around kindness and how I treat others. Respecting each others time regarding communication while making bookings is really important to me. I also give my and am present while I'm working. I feel passionate about this job. It's my favourite so far and doesn't feel like work. I'm not even remotely financially focused and I treasure when someone gifts their effort, their kindness, and vulnerability over possesions and cash.
Also.. please don't bargain.
We are entitled to set our own prices. And complaining to us is the equivalent of crying to your coke dealer instead of buying green misibishis.
Or having a go at the tesla dealership instead if buying a corolla.. or catching a bus. In life if we don't want to or cant afford something we make sacrifices or take another option its just how it goes.
Starting a booking correctly makes us feel safe and could even potentially result in you getting more privelages. It also builds trust.
Where I came from..
My mix is half Sudanese (African) and half white Australian. However, I am from Sydney. I did the majority of my schooling in Woodstock, upstate new york.. My mum traveled when I was a kid. She volunteered in schools teaching. I even did some years of schooling in Mexico and India when I was young.
Then as an adult I have done a lot of backpacking. And I spent a long time living in Peru, Bolivia, and England.
Why smex work?
I genuinely as so passionate about what I do. I find it really exciting and am in total shock it is an option. And even more that it is stigmatised.. Most people really enjoy sex and intimacy and spending time being close with someone. I often find myself battling with feeling guilty when someone is paying me to be doing something that I may even be enjoying more than them.. What were providing is a integral human need and offering connection.. its pretty cute really. I feel empowered and happy and not stuck in this "job".
However, hopefully it stays stigmatised so they don't find out how awesome it is :p.
Personally, I feel like more of a sell out hedging in the 40+ heat in the middle of summer fighting heat stroke or working five days a week in an office to spend my time off preparing for the work week..
See you soon
xxo
