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There's a problematic story our culture tells about sexuality and ageing: that discovery happens in your twenties and that by midlife you should have everything sorted out simply accept a slow decline. This story is wrong, and believing it might be keeping you from one of the most beautiful chapters of your life.
What I've discovered, both personally and through our work with clients, is that midlife often creates the ideal conditions for sexual awakening. You've probably lived enough to know yourself and have probably developed communication skills through years of being human. You've probably built enough internal security that vulnerability feels a bit less terrifying.
There's also something lovely that seems to happen somewhere in your forties or fifties where many people stop performing quite so hard for external validation and you're left with space to ask: what do I genuinely want?
For so many people, this question becomes a doorway to parts of themselves they never knew existed.
If you're experiencing sexual curiosity later in life, please know you're not behind. You're not too late and you haven't missed your window.
The sexuality you're discovering now, informed by decades of living and the hard-won wisdom that comes with age, is likely to be far more authentic and deeply satisfying than anything available to you earlier. Your desire is important and your sexual self is allowed to evolve throughout your entire life.
It's never too late to discover who you really are.
Axel Meridius · Independent Male Escort
Axel works as an escort couple duo with his real-life partner and independent Melbourne escort Evie Elysian, offering intimate escort experiences for couples and singles of any gender or orientation.
