The sacred spot
So, I am asked alot on how is the best way to stimulate the clitoris. So let's cut to chase and dive in.
If you are stressed out or physically uncomfortable, it will be very difficult to achieve satisfaction, even if you perform the techniques correctly.
Now before I get to the actual techniques, I want to cover some very important things to make sure that you get them most out of them.
Stimulating the clitoris is a bit like giving someone a massage; it may feel fantastic at first, but if you don’t vary your technique the result can lead to numbness or pain, neither of which are conducive to driving your woman wild with ecstasy. Trust me on this.
They need to be in a good place emotionally to achieve sexual satisfaction, whether trying alone or with a partner.
For most people, the privacy of their bedroom makes for the most comfortable place.
Using your best foreplay techniques, get her as turned on as you possibly can.
Now that we have covered the boring stuff, lets get down to it and learn some fun clitoral stimulation techniques to make masturbating a whole lot more fun! Or why not book some time together and I'll be your guinea pig to practice on.
The following is a list of tips that you can follow when you are trying out different techniques for clitoral stimulation.
Find A Great Position – Finding a great position to give yourself the most pleasure possible while masturbating.
You may be eager to try these clitoral stimulation techniques to try to orgasm as quickly as possible. But you’ll find that it’s far, far more pleasurable to take things slowly, almost to the point that you are teasing yourself.
Use Lube – This is not a deal-breaker or something that is mandatory for having a good time, but using a great lubricant like coconut oil when masturbating is going to make for much better orgasms, especially if you have trouble self-lubricating.
Clit tip: Don’t blow directly on the clitoris – that will only dry the glans out, and nothing is more painful than having attention lavished on a non-lubricated clitoris.
When it comes to oral sex, many men believe a simple flick of the tongue will suffice – and it might, in the teasing phase.
If you really want to be in charge in the bedroom, try something more controlled and specific; use your tongue to deliver slow, upward strokes against the delicate underside of the glans. You’ll want to repeat this move gently and quickly, varying the direction each time and pausing between each flick of the tongue.
The Squeeze – I can’t believe that more people don’t know about this clit rubbing technique.
The main technique that you are going to be doing is grabbing, squeezing and moving the folds of skin that cover and are directly around your clitoris so that your clit is sandwiched between these folds of skin. When she starts moaning, slide between her thighs and tease her unexposed clitoris with your tongue until it’s fully erect.
As she nears orgasm, you’ll want to alter your technique and begin sliding your tongue back to the starting point without breaking contact.
If repeated slowly and steadily, it’s a guaranteed orgasm of mammoth proportions – the secret is maintaining gentle, deliberate strokes, even when she’s begging for something harder and faster.
When she starts begging for more attention, release the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she reaches orgasm – which should be right around the corner.
You should try to take it slowly to the point where you are basically teasing yourself, as the anticipation can increase the overall amount of pleasure as well. Remember, edging is our best friend.
Gently retract the hood until the clitoris is partially exposed, and dart your tongue across it.
Get her fully turned on and then retract the hood, and gently place your tongue beneath the clitoris.
It may be tempting to go as fast as you can while trying different clitoral stimulation techniques.
Whether or not you are sexually active, you can be sexually satisfied.
There are multiple ways to perform it, so I advise that you play around with it to discover the exact things that feel best for your clitoral stimulation.
So, there you have it. Go book me soon so we can practice.
Lots of love