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Time Wasters: How to Spot Them and Deter Their Intrusions
We all have dealt with excited men who can get off on about anything, leading them to find satisfaction in engaging in sexual conversations. However, many of us don't have the time to indulge them, as we're juggling appointments, managing our busy schedules, and striving to make more bookings. So, how can you spot a time waster and deter them from taking more time than necessary? Here's a guide to help you navigate this tricky territory.
Signs They Are Time Wasters
1. Check Truecaller and Other Databases
Before proceeding with any interactions, do a quick check on platforms like Truecaller. Many women share their experiences with time wasters, and you might find valuable information regarding the individual you're dealing with.
2. Repeated Basic Questions
If they keep asking you basic questions that can easily be answered by your advert, it's a red flag. If you send them a link and they continue to ask the same questions, it's time to reconsider engaging further.
3. Previous Contact Without Booking
If someone has contacted you multiple times before but has never actually booked an appointment, it's likely that they're just wasting your time without any real intention to follow through.
4. Extended Phone Calls
When a potential client wants to keep you on the line asking more than 2-3 questions, particularly about your services that are clearly stated in your advert, it may indicate they are not serious about booking.
5. Unknown Caller IDs
If they call from an unknown caller ID, it's a major warning sign. If you're unable to send them your booking link, you could be pulling your hair out trying to invest unnecessary time into a conversation.
6. Requests for More Photos or Videos
Demanding additional photos or videos can often signal that the person is not genuinely interested in booking your services. It can be a tactic to engage you further without any commitment.
Ways to Deter Time Wasters
1. Send Them Your Link
If you sense someone may be a time waster, simply send them your booking link. This takes the focus away from casual conversation and directs them toward making a decision.
2. Request a Deposit
Asking for a deposit upfront can quickly weed out those not genuinely interested. Serious clients are willing to secure their booking, while time wasters will often back off.
3. Nail Down the Details Quickly
Be assertive about defining the time, date, and service you offer. Questions like, "Can I confirm you for a time tonight?" or "Are you looking to book my Girlfriend package?" can help set the tone for a more focused conversation.
4. Provide Your First Available Booking
If they show interest, let them know your earliest availability and ask if they'd like to book that. This can create urgency and help you secure a commitment.
5. Inquire About Their Source
Asking them which advert they saw can provide insight into their motivation. If they have been shopping around without any specific interest, they might not remember where they found you, indicating they are just browsing rather than committed.
Conclusion
Time management is essential, especially when juggling various appointments. By recognizing the signs of a time waster and employing strategies to deter them, you'll enable yourself to focus on genuine clients who respect your time. Use these tips, and take control of your business interactions—because your time is valuable.
